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Intermediate English Grammar (B2) Lesson 16 of 25

Reflexive Pronouns

Read and listen to four conversations using the grammar.

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Conversation 1

Man: What are you doing?
Woman: I’m trying to learn yoga.
Man: Well, be careful. Don’t hurt yourself.
Woman: I won’t. I’m taking it slow.
Man: Why don’t you take a class or watch a video?
Woman: No, I’d rather teach myself. I like learning things on my own.
Man: Suit yourself.

Conversation 2

Man: So, where are you living these days?
Woman: I live near the beach.
Man: Oh, rent is so expensive there. Do you have a roommate?
Woman: No, I live by myself.
Man: Wow! That must be so nice to live by the beach.
Woman: It is. When I saw the apartment, I told myself I had to get it, no matter the cost.
Man: That must cost a lot.
Woman: Not really. Because it is near the beach and my work, I no longer need a car, so I save a lot of money on transportation.
Man: Well, that must be nice.
Woman: Yeah, in a way, the apartment pays for itself.

Conversation 3

Man: Can I have another cookie?
Woman: By all means. Help yourself.
Man: These are so good. Did you buy them?
Woman: Oh, heaven’s no! I made them myself.
Man: Wow, well, you outdid yourself. These are delicious.
Woman: Well, I’m glad you like them.

Conversation 4

Woman: What did you buy at the store?
Man: I bought myself a new watch.
Woman: Oh, cool. What can it do?
Man: Well, it can monitor my sleep, and it never needs batteries.
Woman: It doesn’t need batteries! How does it do that?
Man: It recharges itself using solar power.
Woman: Wow, I need to get a watch like that.
Man: You should. Sometimes we need to treat ourselves to something nice.
Woman: I like how you think.

Reflexive Pronouns

Point 1: Reflexive pronouns appear when the object pronoun is the same as the subject pronoun.
  1. I told myself a lie.
  2. You are too hard on yourself.
  3. She is too critical of herself.
  4. He sent himself a copy by email.
  5. The batter charges itself.
  6. You guys always outdo yourselves.
  7. They always talk about themselves.
  8. We are disappointed in ourselves.
Point 2: The reflexive pronoun can only he the object of a very or Aprepostion.

After Verb

  1. I hate myself for eating that cake.
  2. She hurt herself playing hockey.

After Preposition

  1. He is very demanding of himself.
  2. She took a photo of herself.
Point 3: Notice that singular pronouns and plural pronouns have different spellings (-self vs. selves)
  1. He loves to be by himself.
  2. A gym membership pays for itself in health benefits.
  3. They often argue amongst themselves.
  4. We found ourselves in big trouble!
Point 4: The pronoun "you" can be both singular and plural, so it has two different spellings for reflexive pronouns.

Talking to one person

  1. Help yourself.
  2. Give yourself enough time to get there.

Talking to more than one person

  1. Help yourselves.
  2. Give yourselves enough time to get there.
Point 5: The reflexive pronoun is used in many idiomatic expressions.
  1. You outdid yourself. (You did an amazing job!)
  2. I treated myself to a new coat. (I bought at gift for myself)
  3. I live by myself. (I live alone)
  4. Don't hurt yourself. (Be careful)
Point 6: The pronoun "oneself" is used to talk about people in general when there is no specific person to reference.
  1. Be good to oneself.
  2. It is important to love oneself.
  3. It is never good to be hard on oneself.
  4. It is vital to take care of oneself.
Answer these questions about the interview.

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